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Old age is a gift indeed!
With age: (from 華玉 )

1. I am entitled to a treat, to be messy, to be extravagant.

(想吃又不敢吃 太愛乾淨 太挑剔 惹人怨 自己也不快樂 而快樂才是ageing殺手呢 最近很流行 laughing meditation 我則偏愛 dancing meditation, just allow our bodies move the way whatever they want to express. Do not hold, they need to express themselves sometimes, just like our mind)

2. I’ve become more kind to myself, and less critical of myself. I've become my own friend.

懂得愛自己 和自己well相處的人(not selfish, don't get me wrong)才有能力把多餘的愛分享給別人 只是一味滴討好他人 依賴他人 其實內心是有所期待的 是很不扎實的 (That was the past me)

3. broken hearts are what give us strength and understanding and compassion. A heart never broken is pristine and sterile and will never know the joy of being imperfect....As I have learned to forgive myself, it becomes easier to forgive other as well.)
我的大半生寫照不也是如此

其實 die 在英文裡叫做 剎那動詞 實際人生裡也是 可是我們經常花大把的時間在"死亡"這個剎那動作的恐懼上 而忽略了 enjoy the real moment. Sometimes even just "BEING" not "DOING" 也可以很 graceful.

While adding a bit gray hair, we've got more wisdom to cope with life, don't we?!

抗老之餘，下台的身影一定要優雅喔(from Cindy)

2009年5月11日 下午 9:21
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